How to Get Mutual Aid to Those Most in Need

The appeal was heartbreaking, but not particularly unusual these days. I am writing with a need. I am currently in a position where I am not able to pay my half of the rent for several reasons. I have four small children too. Does anyone know of any resources at all that can help with rent?
The writer had posted it on a new Facebook page for residents in Durham, North Carolina, that aims to connect residents in need with those who might be able to help. In her case, it worked. Within a week, readers had contributed enough cash to cover her rent, and shed received so much donated food that shed started giving some away to others in need.
Durham isnt unique. Over the past month, hundreds or maybe even thousands of homegrown assistance networks like this one have sprung up around the country. Most call themselves mutual aid, and their goals are generally to meet needs that have arisen during this scary time of quarantines, social distancing, and sheltering in place. For every person who has lost a job and is now worried about how to make ends meet, who cant go to the grocery store because theyre immunocompromised, or who is simply desperate for a little one-on-one contact, theres likely someone else whos been relatively unscathed by the crisis and can helpwants to help, in fact.
Its a beautiful impulse, and one that makes immediate sense. Ultimately, were neighbors; we should lean on one another.

But that enthusiasm and goodwill masks an unpleasant reality. With much of our interactions confined to online spaces during this novel coronavirus/COVID-19 outbreak, only some people are gaining access to that assistanceand its generally not the folks who need it the most. toward closing the digital divide, most lower-income people, especially those who are elderly, dont have regular access to WiFi or familiarity with a range of relevant websites. Forums for assistance advertised on social media, in emails or texts may never make it to people living in generational poverty, and segregated by income.
At this time in our recent history, like no other, we are witnessing how our circles are limited to our own socioeconomic statuses. Where mutual aid efforts are organized around neighborhood pods to facilitate direct neighbor-to-neighbor engagement such as those in Seattle, or municipalities around Boston and other affluent areas, people in the poorest communities wind up with little contact with those who have ample means to help out.
The problem, however, isnt endemic to this particular time. Income inequality readily translates into information inequality in the United States, wrote James Hamilton, a Stanford University professor, and Fiona Morgan of Branchhead Consulting, in a 2018 on the topic. Low-income individuals who are not connected with the web or communicating via smartphones miss out on this online network of expression and thus miss opportunities to share and receive information and tell their stories.
According to a by the Pew Research Center, almost a third of U.S. adults in low-income households dont own smartphones; more than 40% lack high speed internet or a computer.
The people who are most vulnerable dont have broadband; they cant go to a library [now], Morgan says. So how do we adapt to social distancing, and still not only rely on the low-hanging fruit of social media, when the people we most need to help arent part of our social network?
Thats a critical, eternal question, says Shirin Senegal, whos behind the mutual aid project in . Its always been the biggest issue, whether its the mortgage crisis or day-to-day strugglesthat digital divide and not meeting people where they are, she says.
Like many other mutual aid groups around the country, Senegal began her efforts by creating a Google form where residents could enter their specific needs, and others could respond with assistance. But shes a longtime community organizer, which means that she has a deep understanding of how to work with vulnerable communities.
I hit the pavement, says Senegal, explaining how she created fliers advertising the initiative and distributed them to small businesses, community members, and places that lower-income people might visit, such as laundromats. She also established a 24-hour phone line where people can leave a message; she or other volunteers respond within a day.
But above all, Senegal says, its about collaboration. Getting in touch with neighborhood groups that help the elderly. Contacting nonprofits that work with the homeless. Its really important to create those on-the-ground networks, she continues. By empowering community members like that, the reach is much bigger and broader.
Using those relationships is key, say organizers from the Highlander Center, a social justice training center in Tennessee thats been around since 1932. Highlander recently held giant public conference calls on mutual aid, emphasizing that the practice has been around for centuries among marginalized communities like formerly enslaved Africans and poor immigrants who have lacked access to conventional services.
Real mutual aid is bottom-up, says Highlanders co-director Ash-Lee Woodard Henderson. Its about talking to people and engaging them in the work. Allowing those who are directly affected to be empowered to help others.
In Atlanta, has been doing that from the start. Unlike many other efforts around the country, its mutual aid initiative started back in 2017, long before the current crisis, to support and strengthen the community there. As a result, its organizers already have connections among residents.


A lot of our communication, because of access issues with the internet, is more phone and door-to-door communication, says Project Souths co-director Emery Wright. He and other organizers are making sure they have accurate phone lists for everyone in the neighborhood, and created a survey to ensure that residents have the medication, food, or hygiene products they need.
Its a 21st century challenge: How social movements are able to become powerful enough to respond to scales of disaster, even on this global scale, Wright says.
Every mutual aid effort is a little different. Some have existing deep roots; others never realize how important those roots are. And some aim to build them from scratch. Thats true for the , which recently formed serendipitously among a handful of unconnected people. They realized they needed to work hard to connect with the poorest members of the community.
Theres never really any overcoming itits a basic inequity in our society, says Dave Peattie, one of the projects organizers, of the digital disconnect. But theyre trying. He and the other leaders put up roughly 6,000 posters in English and Spanish around the city. Theyre collaborating with a large affordable housing organization that will distribute fliers to its 1,400 housing units. And Peattie is aiming to reach out to every church and synagogue in Berkeley, to encourage them to share information about the initiative with congregants.
Berkeleys program has a unique element. Rather than helping to fill one-off requests, the organizers match up those in need with those who want to help on a longer-term basisa buddy system, if you will.
So each person making a request has someone checking in with them on a regular basis, explains Helen Marks, whos in charge of matching pairs of residents. She and others try to find the best fit possible: among needs and abilities, personal styles, and geographic location. They ask that the pairs be in touch at least once a week, to stay on top of a situation thats still evolving for everyone.


[The requester] knows someone will keep checking in on them, Peattie says. We want to make sure everyone is being cared for as much as possible.
The matching feature has been extremely successful, with residents on both sides of the equation gushing over their partners and discussing plans to remain in contact later. Its a very clear, tangible way to improve peoples livesboth those in need, and those with help to give.
And in a more subtle way, those pairings are helping the community become a little less stratified, couple by couple. In an America where different socioeconomic groups can barely find footing to communicate, thats an incredible feat.
For volunteers, its just seeing what it must be like to have an empty fridge, or what its like to be immunocompromised or struggling for moneythis exposure to different lives, different people who you wouldnt have met otherwise, Marks says. Probably the No. 1 thing that gives me hope for the future is how everyones learning.
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Amanda Abrams
is a journalist living in Durham, NC. She's been freelancing for over 12 years and has contributed to The New York Times, Washington Post, the New Republic, Glamour, and many other publications. Before working as a journalist, Amanda was a policy wonk.
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